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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you dated other people since your divorce?  Honestly you are coming across needy and desperate.

Give some thoughts to his kids. They probably like their schools.  Their Mom I'm sure has some input.

Your boyfriend may be very happy with the way things are now. I would not assume that marrying is what he wants if he has not been divorced long.[/quote]

This is exactly the point. I do want to be married, particularly to him because I love him. That’s pretty much sums up why I want to talk about the future. If he doesn’t want it then I want to know. I’d like to be informed so I can take that info and make some decisions. [/quote]

What are you going to do if he says no?[/quote]

I don’t know. Decide if I want to wait or not. The point of this whole thing is to communicate early and about things that matter to set a better foundation. I don’t want to be divorced again and I figure that a lot of communication is not a bad thing. No one said I am moving in with him tomorrow, just that I want to talk about how we both feel about the future. Lord knows love, hope and wishes aren’t going to get us there[/quote]

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