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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t know if it’s chicken or egg, but it seems to be self-reinforcing that people with kids who didn’t train until (usually) 3+ are the ones who say things like “I don’t consider a kid potty trained unless he takes himself to a real toilet, manages his clothing with all buttons and snaps, wipes well and independently, washes hands according to CDC guidelines, never has a single accident, etc.”

Like... yeah, that’s not all going to happen 110% of the time until close to or over 3, so I see why you don’t bother before then. But then again, I think it’s also ex-post-facto justification for waiting. To me, as it was with another poster whose twins PT at 16 months, a kid is PT when they understand when they need to go and tell you/go over to a potty in advance of doing it, and then they pee or poop in an appropriate place, with fairly rare accidents (no more than once a week or so, and tapering off to nothing pretty quickly). By that measure, mine was also trained before 16 months.

They might need help with clothing or somewhat with wiping, but they have made the connection between feeling the urge to go and going in a potty/toilet, and they do it very, very consistently— to me, that’s pretty much the definition of potty trained. The rest is mostly motor skills and body size (my kid wasn’t able to sit on a toilet without an insert until at least 2.5).

EVERY kid is going to need SOME help before 2 or 3, so pick your poison— helping them pull down their pants or changing their poopy diaper. *shrug* [/quote]

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