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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stay involved and "get to know" the man she is dating. At 19 I was dating a 29 year old and my mom hated it. She didn't push me away but didn't enable the relationship either. She stayed involved enough to know who I was with and that I was safe. The relationship lasted 6 months; long enough for me to realize the guy was a loser. [/quote] OP. Yes, this is exactly the tactic I am taking. So far, it's not working. We keep inviting him over or to events..and he declines. I want her to keep confiding in me so she can hear aloud the 'red flags' herself, without me pointing them out. DH thinks I am being a wimp and would rather disallow her from seeing this guy again. I know that won't work and would backfire. Yes, all of us are in therapy. [/quote]
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