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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My concern is more about being taken seriously - being seen as a potential relationship, not a fun fling.[/quote]

To get at this point I don't think that men will be less likely to see you as a relationship prospect if you have sex with them early. They are just as likely to think that you're great for being so into them and lose interest if you hold out too long because they don't think you're interested.

What *is* something to be think about is that most second or third dates don't end up in relationships. So if you hook up with someone early, odds are they won't be a long term prospect. So I think that sometimes women will hook up with some guy on the third date and when it doesn't work out think that the guy downgraded them or thought they were sl*ts or something. That's not what happened. Most third dates don't end up as relationships and hooking up doesn't change that. So if you only want to sleep with men who will be long term prospects/boyfriends, don't hook up on the second date.

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