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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, we are probably about the same age. My dear friend went through a nasty divorce last year of her (now ex) husband with whom she had been together since freshman year of college. Point being that not only was she back on the dating scene after a long while, she had not even been on it very long in the first place before she partnered up. What she was most surprised and upset by at first was that she would seem to make a connection with a guy, have sex, and then he would ghost her. This happened to her twice and she was devastated all over because it re-ignited her insecurities that the divorce caused. Anyway, she developed a thicker skin and decided to mentally treat those as necessary flings and to be very slow with future dates. That is what works for her and you will figure out what works for you. [/quote]

I have two recently divorced friends who experienced similar.
We are all 45 and married/dated in our 20s pre-internet dating. [/quote]

I think this is a good point. It’s easier for men to find women to have sex with now and to date multiple women at once. This has made me slower to have sex with men and slower to trust them. I also make sure we have discussed exclusivity and dating goals (are you in this for an ltr etc) before having sex as well as asking the guy to get tested. Also op, get the hpv vaccine now, before you sleep with anyone. And use condoms[/quote]

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