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Reply to "adoptees, would you spend holidays with your biofamily?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm an adoptee who also found my family in middle age. Don't sacrifice whatever traditions you already have to do stuff like this, but if you don't have other things on the table, of course, go. Your bio sibling's reaction, though, is enough to lie low. I have a very cordial, friendly, but arm's length relationship with my bio siblings. They are lovely, but my adopted family comes first. My bio family wasnt invited to my family events( weddings) as their appearance would have overshadowed the event, and would have made my adoptive parents very uncomfortable, but otherwise I surely would have. I was never in touch with bio parents- just the siblings and extended family. We see each other on a regular basis. Go on a different day. Bio Mom should understand.[/quote]
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