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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, most of the pp's suck.  Terrible responses.  Of course you are right, because in addition to the loss itself, there is the fear of maybe never having a child.[/quote]

I agree [/quote]

No, OP sucks for being such a horrible person. Regardless of your personal pain, you DO NOT announce that the pain that others feel is less than yours. What response did she think she’d get? You suck too. I’ve never used this word before, but OP is a c¥nt.[/quote]
OP didn't announce it.  She vented it here.  I agree that it is inappropriate to announce that someone else's pain is not as bad as someone else's.  OP is correct, though. And no way do I believe this is the first time you've used that word; that this is the very worst thing you've ever heard that finally pushed you to use it, LOL.  [/quote]

DP.  No, OP is not "right".  Multiple PPs have discussed personal situations in which a miscarriage after already having a child was quite painful.

People like you and OP who think they get to tell other people how and to what degree they can feel need to just stop.  Just stop.  You are being insensitive and stupid.[/quote]
I would never tell anyone to what degree they can feel pain.  And, yes, of course it's painful.  A loss of a wanted pregnancy is always painful.  But just like the person above explained, there are degrees of loss. How do you not see that?  Are you a parent? What's worse, a miscarriage or losing one of your kids? If both are equally painful, then you would never be able to choose between the two.  But guess what, that's an easy choice to make because obviously losing a child already born is worse than a miscarriage.  Would I say that to a person having a miscarriage?  OF COURSE NOT.  But is it true? OF COURSE IT IS.  How can you not acknowledge that?[/quote]

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