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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is it so awful to recognize that there are difficult degrees of pain? Losing a 5 year old is worse that losing a 5week pregnancy. It just is. Losing your mother when you are 7 is worse than losing your mother when you’re 70 and she’s 90. Maybe the situation OP is reacting too isn’t a good one, but it’s silly to say there aren’t different degrees of hurt and that people need to be mindful of saying their hurt is “the same” as someone else’s in a much more difficult situation [/quote] Different people will rank painful situations in different ways. People who are currently in pain don't need you minimizing their pain. As other PPs have said, this is not a contest. No decent, empathetic, tactful person is interested in participating in the Pain Olympics. This is Being a Decent Person 101. Think this stuff to yourself all you want but don't voice it or yell at people about it on an anonymous message board. OP is out of line. [/quote]
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