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[quote=Anonymous]You might be framing it the wrong way. I’m one of those people with lots of experience with miscarriage. Had a few in the seven years it took me to have my first live birth and had a few in between my other two live births. I think that a FIRST miscarriage is really disorienting and painful no matter when you have it. The unexpected and often bloody ending of something you very much want is hard to grapple with. However, miscarriage, like anything else, gets easier with practice because you are prepared for it. You know how to protect yourself emotionally in early pregnancy and you know how to be prepared physically should it happen suddenly. My fourth miscarriage before I was a mom probably wasn’t as difficult as someone else’s first even with three kids. That first one is horrible no matter when it happens, so cut the lady some slack. Her previous fertility luck doesn’t provide much protection that first time. [/quote]
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