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[quote=Anonymous]Hi OP,
I see the Crazies have arrived on this thread. I do agree with the posters who said you should take some time and focus on yourself and your child and your healing. Therapy is great, especially after a verbally abusive marriage. Take some time for you, for solidifying your career, for connecting with new/old friends, for taking care of yourself physically like training for a marathon or yoga or whatever.

When you are ready, you will do great. But you need to be ready, emotionally. I'm older than you, but dating was amazing to me because I did a lot of therapy and I waited until I was emotionally healed and healthy. I'm now engaged, after being separated for eight years, divorced for five.

You will probably not need to wait that long. Also, I've found that the best men out there at your age and older are men with kids. Nearly every decent guy out there a little older than you should have at least one kid already. Most of them want to find someone else with a kid who can relate to them, their lives, their priorities.

I've never met a great guy with kids who didn't want to find a great girlfriend with kids. You're going to to great once you're ready. I can also understand you coming here to ask - of course you wonder about your future, about love, etc. Good luck!

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