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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love DH dearly. But, he had an accident a few years back and is disabled. We haven't "done it" in years. This is a problem the ED drugs can't fix. We have a happy sexless marriage. I miss "it".  I've run into an old friend who recently divorced.  I see him a few times a year - never near home.  Would an occasional friend with benefits, who is fully aware of my circumstances, be a horrible thing? [/quote]

It's hard to answer this while talking about this like a child, no offense. WHat is "it"? More details are needed to answer the question properly. If it is just that his p*nis doesn't work anymore, and you are able to O (and the O is what is important to you) in a variety of ways, I would advise against it. Are you able to meet you sexual needs using a combination of oral, his hands, a v*brator and anything else necessary? If he is also affectionate I would think that would cover most of the benefits from sex. Not ideal, but not sexless either.

If oral or manual from him is off the table then perhaps you gotta do what you gotta do, but don't rub it in his face unless he's into that sort of thing.

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