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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I travel a lot and I have 3 APs, in the destinations where I visit a few times a year. All are currently unmarried. They know my situation, and I'm also very clear that if they do find someone, I understand if they want to cut it off and I'll wish them the best. That happened with one for a period of time, then that ended and we resumed what we had before.

None of them expect me to end my marriage, and I've also made it clear I won't. As far as I can tell, they're OK with that. We have fun and enjoy each other's company. Nothing more than that.[/quote]

So they are or aren't toilet paper to you, as PP declared?[/quote]

He is actually toilet paper to them as I've been in the same situation.  My single APs all used me for sex only when they didn't want a committed relationship making it clear I could be cast aside at any time if she decided she wanted an available man.  And I was.  Same as this guy.[/quote

Yep 9 times out of 10 the AP is nothing more than a release. Most of the women APs hope for a lot more, many end up letting the wife know in some way. I've seen that over and over which usually ends it abruptly if the wife chooses to stay. You have to have a low self worth to go with a married person to begin with. Of course the married person isn't much better, and probably fooled their spouse early on. 
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