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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think these responses are a little harsh, honestly. I do not think it is hard no in all cases.

When did the separation start? And how long has the marriage really been over?

Many, many people have to be separated in the same house for awhile and even until a divorce. It is hard to agree on terms and also to start two new residences.

I am someone who has been separated a year, filing for divorce any day but I can tell you that the marriage has been over since almost the beginning. And there have been separate bedrooms for 5 years now and there was trouble before that. So for someone like me, honest to God, there would be nothing to worry about. There are no lingering feelings as it was over YEARS ago. People will stay for a very long time past a marriage's death for kids.

So to everyone saying, oh no, it is a deal breaker--it is just simply not true in all cases. Really.[/quote]  So how does this work?  Your date picks you up and drops you back off at home where you spend the rest of your time with your not-yet-ex?  [/quote]

We don't date, but we could. Been separated for more than a year. Our agreement was signed months ago. Neither of us could claim adultery now. We will date after it is final, but if we were dating, it would not be a problem. It has been beyond over for YEARS. Also, I have an apartment. We go there separately sometimes mainly to get away from each other (kids in the house). But that is recent. My point is, there is no complicated issue in this scenario...it if is truly over and you are literally waiting for the divorce decree, who cares? [/quote]

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