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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do NOT stand for that. It only gets worse. My STBXH showed signs of controlling behavior early and it got worse over time. Definitely push for counseling - you may need a third party to help you navigate this.[/quote]

OP:  thanks.  We are currently in couples counseling.  The thing is, when we get in front of the (male) therapist, DH somehow twists things around.  For example, he says that we "agreed" that I would not play chess with DC (I honestly don't remember this) and therefore I "lied" by telling DC that I would play with him.  It's crazy-making in front of the therapist and I almost feel like it's a useless session.  [/quote]

It is useless.  Face facts - your DH is a twisted, sick manipulator.  No counseling will fix him.  Get out now.  [/quote]

Couples counseling does NOT help people like this in my experience. In fact, in my case, it made things worse.

I would start planning to leave and plan on getting an aggressive attorney b/c your ex will fight dirty and you want to protect custody as effectively as possible. Nothing is going to change him. Better your child have 50% normal parenting. I am so sorry.[/quote]

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