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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please don’t do this. You’re going to make things tense and shitty for everyone for no real reason. Just tough it out. [/quote]

I agree. 
You’re inviting speculation and hurt feelings.
You don’t have to be best friends with her, but it sounds like you’d like to ostracize her from your group. 
Grow up and suck it up for the few hours when you’ll be in the same room together. [/quote]

I don’t want to ostracize her. I go to events when she is present. I say hello and exchange small talk. I consciously don’t sit near her and almost always leave physical area if she is there. I’m sure she has noticed but I try not to make it obvious to others.

However, I don’t want to invite her to something for myself or my child.

[b]A big part of the falling out has to do with how her child treats my child.[/b] That started it and I started to dislike mom altogether over the past 2 years.[/quote]

Did anyone read this?

This is really absurd.  Children grow and change--and there is often more than one side to the story.  You need(ed) to leave the child drama out of it and act like the adults you purportedly are.  However, it appears your maturity stalled at around 14, based on your explanations on how you want to handle it.

Back to junior high for you.[/quote]

My friend and I think her child is a future serial killer type child and the mom was abused and something very wrong with mom. I don’t trust her and don’t want her or her child in my house. Both mom and child go to therapy and have a lot of problems. At the same time, mom tries hard to appear perfect and puts others down around her.

I don’t want to spread rumors about child’s disturbing behaviors and my friend’s Split personality.[/quote]

I wouldn’t want to be friends witH you.....Miss Perfect.[/quote]

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