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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He lied about being married at first, but the sex was so hot and so good I stayed for awhile. Cars, my apartment, leaving dinner early to go home (yes we were out in public a lot)... I knew I could leave it whenever I wanted and I have no self esteem issues. It was just so hot.[/quote]

I think this highlights a good point ...it is most often hot and intense and most ap's feel special and triumphant for awhile.  Then he moves on or is found out or rebuilds with his wife or not, whatever...over time the sheen comes off, the lights go on or the fog lifts but for a time you lived your special fantasy we understand. Then it becomes lukewarm and eventually maybe cold?  Yes, I'm a wife and as you know, they often come back, sometimes they beg and cry...and they are either wanted or not. [b]But really, to feel so proud to have had hot sex with a married man who lies? [/b]You need better goals. I actually think you do have self esteem issues

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I don’t see where the PP said she was proud. She just said she enjoyed it. Two totally different things. You’re trying to assign morals to something that for many people is just a bit of fun.[/quote]

Bit of fun for the two people doing it.  Not so much fun for the spouse at home whose life is being wasted with a liar.  I knew a couple older man and women.  She had stayed at home to raise their two children whilst he worked. In was back in that era when women didn't work, they raised the family.  They got to retirement age when he could finally be himself, the kids had left home so he left her to go be with his boyfriend.

It wasn't acceptable for him to have a boyfriend in his career, not like now. So she wasted a whole life for a facade and now at retirement when they should be about to go on vacations and spend time with grandchildren, she is alone, starting over.

The young female in our office mid 30's who has admitted to sleeping with married men is now in a committed relationship, a man she wants to marry and who she loves.[b]  I laugh because now she feels HER relationship is so important she doesn't want any other female coming along to ruin it.  These women think it's ok when it's other people's relationships but their relationship is so different. [/b] [/quote]
There are a lot of dumb, selfish people out there who are completeky lacking in perspective, insight, self reflection...[/quote]

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