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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m going to give you a free life lesson that I learned too late in life. The quickest way to disappointment, resentment, and sadness is to have expectations, especially of other people. Do with that information whatever you would like, but I’m going to tell you, as someone who is about to raise a whole other human being that is not the person that you or your partner are, that the more you can let go of arbitrary expectations, the happier your lives will be. So think about it, as well as the co sequences of choice, when you consider laying down expectations of others. You will learn that your parents are separate people from you, much as your child will be a separate person from you, and that all of you fairly have different goals, needs, wants in life. [/quote]
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