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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's good you're being proactive with this. My DH won't raise the issue and instead leaves me as the wife feeling ran over. He says, well they won't visit so we should go to them instead always. His parents feelings shouldn't come before mine and I think DH should talk to his parents about their lack of visiting. It should be more equal.[/quote]

So you’re participating in this, yes? If so, that’s on you. You do not have to visit with him. Let him go visit his parents without you. [/quote]

I'm not sure why people post this. We'd never go visit parents without our spouse. If we did, I'm sure either set of parent would think there's significant dysfunction and looming divorce. Also, I wouldn't want my DH to take my kids away for an entire weekend. Weekends are for having fun with my kids and enjoying my little family. [/quote]

Why are you so rigid? Yes, it is possible for children to go visit their parents without their spouse there. The fact that you think that means people would think you’re on the brink divorce is absurd. It’s also possible to sometimes spend weekends apart. [/quote]

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