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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She might be shy and feeling insecure.

[b]You sound like you hate your wife, [/b]by the way. Why don't you try to emphasize and approach the situation with kindness? You're more likely to have success that way.[/quote]

You sound like my wife. I told her I can’t stand her personality and she took it as me saying I can’t stand her. If that were the case, I wouldn’t have married her. I’ve tried to approach it with kindness, but she immediately gets defensive and it starts a fight. [/quote]

WTF?  You realize her personality is part of her, right?  it is not easy to change your personality, nor should she have to be someone she isn't.  you don't marry someone hoping they will change.  after all, you're still an asshole.[/quote]

I’m not trying to be an asshole, I’m trying to help her become a more social person. I’m very outgoing and it’s hard to have someone by my side that’s not. [/quote]

OP, stop.

You are being an asshole. You are not trying to help HER with anything. You are trying to change her into who you want her to be. After 10 years, I would personally hope that my husband would know me and love me for who I am. You do not love your wife. I truly don't think that anyone who speaks the way you do about your wife is capable of love.

I'm sooooooooo sorry that it's hard FOR YOU. I can't imagine how difficult it must be for your wife, who knows that her husband doesn't like her and wants to force her to have a different personality. I hope she divorces you.[/quote]

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