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[quote=Anonymous]Don’t try to make everything equal in terms of money. Give what you want to give, what you can afford and what won’t make anyone feel bad if that’s possible. We have the same amount of kids as my sister and my brother does not have any. We do not struggle financially and both of my siblings do. They both want to give presents to my kids because it makes them feel good. I would love to help out my brother financially and give my sister’s children expensive gifts they can’t afford but they would be upset if I did this and find it insulting. Like I was showing off. So I definitely still spend more on them than they spend on us but we don’t go overboard to make sure it’s not that much and reach the point that they think we are rubbing things in their face. Definitely some sibling rivalry still present...[/quote]
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