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[quote=Anonymous]Haunted is an interesting manner to explain what is going on with you. Does this mean it is like a “ghost’ in your mind propelled by your own internal workings?"  It seems like you are trying to tell yourself something  or you may be using this as a coping mechanism for something going on in your life. But bottom line here is----
You have a life and say it is good. Why would you try to do something to mess it up? You have responsibilities to your family and yourself. Pursuing this fantasy doesn’t sound like something that would turn out well. Apparently he also has responsibilities so pursuing this could potentially mess up two families, who may be doing well right now.
Please think about what you have and to whom you are responsible. Then think of the consequences of allowing this fantasy to build and develop and what all you have to lose.
I know for me there are many thoughts I have that are not for the best. I have to tell myself when they crop up to think on something else that is not harmful or potentially bad. I dream of going to the ocean when I am stressed out, or eat a bag of Doritos, or go into the bathroom and scream until my voice gives out or read a book to shift my thinking.
I pray that you can find something that will replace this fantasy. God bless you.[/quote]

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