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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did not. The exWife felt that she did the work to get the kids to where they are and that I was not a part of that equation. I congratulated the kids and said things to them like "I heard you were great...." I was not an AP. We met and married about 5 yrs after the divorce was final.[/quote] +1 Ex did not want me coming to the events. I was not AP, divorce was amicable, but she was very upset about any involvement I had with child. I didn't want to push, as I didn't want to cause an argument between DH and his child's mother, but I think it made it look to the child that I didn't care. Even when the child asked me to come to an activity, ex wanted me to say no. So each situation is different.[/quote] +1 Child asked me to come, mother did not. I did not go. Looking back, I wish I had gone, as my lack of showing up impacted our relationship. [/quote]
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