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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I can think of SO many scenarios where it would be useful, especially for us. Neither of us are very good at seeing text messages, or responding.

Neither of us are good at letting each other know where we are. When I’m with the kids, I don’t hear my phone, and when I’m running or biking or driving, I don’t respond to texts.  DH doesn’t always see my texts at work and he of course doesn’t text either when he’s driving, biking. He also notoriously NEVER hears his phone when he’s with the kids somewhere.

We’ve lost each other in amusement parks and other public spaces.  It drives me nuts. He comes home anywhere from 5-6:30 and I never know exactly when and he doesn’t text to let me know. So when I’m preparing dinner, I like to know whether we should wait for him or go ahead and eat without him.  Sometimes I take kids to the park before dinner or take them on an errand, and DH comes home and finds us gone, so he always texts to see where we are, but most of the time, I dont see his text.  I have a health condition but I run and bike really long distances and it makes me feel better knowing DH knows where I’m running and biking just in case I collapse for some reason or am jumped by someone. Yes, that’s one of those less likely scenarios, but it’s still a possibility.

I don’t suspect he’s cheating. He’s just very paranoid about privacy stuff and being tracked by companies, the government, etc.  He says there are so many ways to track you now that you have zero anonymity.  And He doesn’t trust the government at all- doesn’t believe they regulate it AND that they can and do nefariously use that tracking data to keep monitor people.[/quote]

It sounds like you two have a communication problem,  not a tracking problem. [/quote]

True. But it’s much easier to turn a switch on your phone rather than try to problem solve all our communication issues.[/quote]

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