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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: First, I’m not an over dramatic asshat. Trust is the absolute issue here. I’m not upset with the boyfriend for his past, although I still do have a lot of unanswered questions which I have asked to have an actual conversation about. My mom has yet to take me up on the offer for a conversation because she is not capable of dealing with these kinds of things. She just wants to sweep it under the rug and assumes it’ll go away. My kids have been in her care and not disclosing is a real issue for me.

He got into an argument with someone at a bar, they went outside and I’m not sure who pulled a gun first, but two people were shot and killed. He served time and then stand your ground law happened while he was in jail, they appealed and he won.

I definitely have questions about the incident but the trust issue is what’s killing me. That’s a pretty big breach of trust, especially when I’ve put my kids in your care. Let me make that call. She shouldn’t have made it for me. [/quote]

I think you have a right to be upset.  It is frustrating that you entrusted your child to her without the whole truth.  I don’t think the details matter much, the lack of transparency is causing the problem.

15 years in jail I hope he is reformed, but I’d be Worried too.  We know his temper is short.[/quote]

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