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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]amazing, if any husband has come here to say the same thing do you think there would be commiseration from so many others or would the mob be out to castrate him?[/quote]
Confused. OP seems to say she has intrusive dreams and thoughts about someone from her past who she admits she probably wouldn’t get along with now. She wants them to stop. She’s emphasized how great she thinks her DH is. What’s the problem? She’s not lining away, not planning an affair. You’re trolling to turn this into some misogynistic debate. I personally think OP should keep a dream journal to figure out what’s going on in her psyche. [/quote]

it's BS.  if your current partner is all wonderful, why give up precious real estate in your head to pine away for someone from your past?  and it's not just OP but other women here as well who have chimed in voicing their agreement.  again, if your DH admitted he was still dreaming or thinking about an ex, what would be your reaction?[/quote]
DP here. I would be concerned but glad he's being honest and not trying to hide it. If it's really a problem and he wants my help, I would try to help him fix it. If you're mature and your relationship is good then everything doesn't have to be a trust exercise.[/quote]

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