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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP and I've been wondering the same things. I'm a divorced woman with over $1M net worth, and I drive an old car rather than buying a Tesla (although I do love to travel!). Dating apps seem to be rife with men who are looking for a sugar momma to help them retire (it's not clear from what) at 55, not to mention, put a roof over their heads and buy them health insurance.

So far, though, I've resisted putting, "I'm financially secure and you should be, too."

Instead I've been relying on some tells. Simply saying "self-employed" or "independent consultant" are often tips. If he's a self-employed professional, he's going to say what he does (computer programmer, doctor, lawyer, real estate agent, accountant) rather than just "self-employed".

This isn't foolproof, though.[/quote]

Ultimately you are going to have to date the guy and watch how he lives and behaves.

So far, though, I've resisted putting, "I'm financially secure and you should be, too." <-- I think this might actually [i]attract [/i]guys looking for a sugar momma, not drive them away.

Not to put too fine a point on it, if you were intent on remarrying, a mutual "show me your credit report" might be in order, as well as some form of prenuptial agreement.[/quote]

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