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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have one DS, age 4. DH and I have separate bedrooms and do separate things when DS is asleep. We eat all meals together. On weekends, we do a family activity day: museum, zoo, climbing gym, etc. and we alternate the other weekend day. DH are somewhat physically affectionate to each other in front of DS: back oats, brief hugs. How does something like this play out long-term? So far DS hasn't asked any questions. We don't plan on getting a divorce or moving out until DS it's in his 20s or maybe not at all because we will be very old and tired by then.[/quote]

This will work until it doesn’t. It may last until he is out of the house or it may not.  Have a plan now.  Agree to things now, while you are working together and both sign it.  I have seen this work until one or the other meets someone and then they want out.  [/quote]

+1 Unless both of you are asexual and aromantic, it's unlikely that this configuration will work longterm, because one or both of you are going to meet someone. Would you still be able to keep this living arrangement if other partners come into the picture? [/quote]

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