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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ignore, back away from all of them.  If she makes $250, she is very comfortable and probably also gets child support.  She needs to manage the money better.[/quote]

[b]Cant[/b]. Tried it. MIL expects DH to always help as family is family no matter what was said or done by SIL. They always have excuses but I have reached my breaking point. I honestly will have a nervous breakdown one of these days. There is no pleasing them, nothing is enough. [/quote]

So what if she expects it?  Does DH go along with everything MIL wants?  If so, couples counseling stat.  [/quote]

He is starting to pull back now but MIL keeps trying to [b]make him feel sorry for SIL[/b] so he helps her out[/quote]

You and your DH are adults who should be capable of owning your reactions to requests you don't agree with and your DH needs a spine.  No one can MAKE him feel something and you CAN ignore and back away if you and DH CHOOSE to do so.[/quote]

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