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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think OP’s vision of her family in 5 years is something to ignore. Most people over value the short-term in deciding whether to have kids. [b]If you can get through the next 5 years somehow, then what you want your family to look like at years 5+ is more important..[/b].[/quote] Yeah, if getting through that five years is disastrous, why should things magically change once they're over? You can't parent from a place of being completely overwhelmed for years (suggesting you may well be shortchanging your kids and yourself) and then expect everything to be hunky-dory on the other side. Chaos doesn't usually breed order, at least, not the healthy kind.[/quote]
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