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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For a lot of women, they need to feel desirable, so unfortunately your backing off may make things worse.[/quote]

My husband is low drive. Now I barely even think of him as a sexual being. If he tried in any way to woo me I’d burst in to flames. For your wife if she’s feeling unsexy a subtle wooing might take you further than outright asking for sex. This is why a few people have suggested massage. It’s sensual touch that asks nothing of her and relaxes her. She may not in the moment feel like sex but she’s connecting feeling good with your touch, with you touching her. It can rebuild your sensual relationship. It’s worth trying a few times. Be generous with affectionate touch that requires nothing of her but don’t ask for sex right away. Let her know you find her desirable by complimenting her. Go on some dates and hold her hand, small if back, get the door, talk about things other than family life and relationship.  You’re in the sweet spot of having already learned how to get the girl, having done so before. Bonus for you it’s like she’s new again. I’m not saying you need to do all the work in your relationship but sometimes we need to refresh/remember how we got together. [/quote]

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