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[quote=Anonymous]In the odd occasion I travel with my husband for business, he books the tickets. He has his itinerary and a better idea of when an ideal time for me to be there is. I get a cab or Uber to wherever he is or he arranges for transport if it’s a place that’s not easily managed. We both work but he travels so often it’s more his area if knowledge than my own. It’s no biggie. And for more local stuff I make the arrangements

This sounds less about travel and more about relationship dynamics. Have you heard of the price of admission theory? There are things each of you do that might not be faves of the other. If (most) everything else works, you roll with it and realize it’s a quirk that you can live with as it’s something that is inherent to someone you love. They are worth more to you than an inability to plan. Yeah, that’s an annoying thing, but easily solved if you know ahead it’s not happening and just take it on. Maybe you load the toilet roll backwards and are imperfect some way as well? I’ve explained this poorly but hopefully the idea conveys.

Also if she is resistant to your going ahead and booking there’s a bigger conversation to be had. Depression, anxiety, something is causing weird stress for her. [/quote]

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