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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I think you are still blaming the victim. There is tremendous pressure in our culture to "work" to "save" marriages. There is tremendous stigma against divorce and against the victims of infidelity, who culture tells us must have done something wrong to make their partner cheat. Let's have a little more empathy and support for OP. She did what our culture pressures women to do -- give the man another chance in order to benefit the institution of marriage or the children. She tried, and it's her husband's fault it isn't working. OP, you've extended yourself as far (or further) than any reasonable human would/should. It's time to cut ties permanently with your DH.[/quote] Only thing I'd change here is "There is a tremendous pressure on women in our culture to "work" to "save" marriages. OP, you've done your best. He talks a good game, but has definitely shown his true colors. Time for him to take a hike. [/quote]
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