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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just remember. This was YOUR call. [/quote]

No. It wasn't. He knew the rules he broke them it was HIS call for the marriage to end. [/quote]

YOU took him back. [/quote]

[b]She took him back [/b]because he lied and said he changed and he didn't so... bye felicia![/quote]

Exactly my point. [/quote]

Stop blaming the victim.[/quote]

No one is blaming her for having been cheated on the first time.  She deserves to be blamed her for her absolute awful decision making to take him back in and for believing he had changed.  This one is entirely on her.  [/quote]

I think you are still blaming the victim.  There is tremendous pressure in our culture to "work" to "save" marriages.  There is tremendous stigma against divorce and against the victims of infidelity, who culture tells us must have done something wrong to make their partner cheat.

Let's have a little more empathy and support for OP.  She did what our culture pressures women to do -- give the man another chance in order to benefit the institution of marriage or the children.  She tried, and it's her husband's fault it isn't working.  OP, you've extended yourself as far (or further) than any reasonable human would/should.  It's time to cut ties permanently with your DH.  [/quote]

sorry, but while I think you mean well, I think you're a bleeding heart.

bad decisions are bad decisions.  the decision to take back a lying, cheating partner was her decision alone.  no mater how you try to rationalize it, that was simply a bad, awful decision.  now it's up to her to fix it.[/quote]

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