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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP.  Like yourself, I've been trying for sibling the last 6 years with track record of 3BFP, 3MC, 1PGS normal not implanting, etc.  I am trying my last cycle at the age of 45, too.  We have MF and need ICSI so we also don't have that option to "TRY every month". 
Although I feel fortunate that we have our first kid, I have to be honest here that at times I still resent DH for him hesitating and not taking the sperm analysis test sooner.  I had done my part of test a whole lot earlier than him.  Had we known his condition sooner, we could have started this journey a lot sooner.  DH's take was "Oh, if we have kid that is great, if not, we'll just have a great time just two of us" mentality.  This was before his MF was discovered.  
I was sooooooo annoyed by his comments.  Like, you knew how much I wanted a baby and you knew I had been seeing a Dr. to run a preliminary tests and all?  and say these things?!!  
(years later, I still get super annoyed remembering his dumb comments).[/quote]

I feel you - its really hard not to resent DH - i also feel like its his fault that we're in this boat (same thing - i'm not in a rush, we need to wait till I graduate (from a freaking doctoral program that took 5 years))... I am thinking its not healthy to feel resentful - have you figured out how to handle? [/quote]

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