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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cheaters - in marriage, or other areas of life, are not people who care about others in general. They lack empathy, so of course they don't care about how it affects kids.

If "sex" is the issue then be a grownup and ask for an open marriage or get a divorce. Cheating is the juvenile path of cowards. [/quote]

If you aren’t having sex and are the rejecting party, you have deemed sex to be unimportant and have no right to object when your spouse does that unimportant thing elsewhere.  [/quote]

That's fine - if the person who feels rejected wants to have sex with others, tell your spouse you're seeking it elsewhere. Be honest and up front - don't lie about it.

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There is nothing really to tell. Is your spouse a normal healthy human but you reject their sexual advances yet they have not divorced you? Then you honestly can be certain they are seeking it elsewhere and you should be grateful for that because it is saving your marriage while freeing you from unwanted sexual attention. [/quote]

You're skirting around it. If someone is clear they aren't interested in sex, then you be clear that you're seeking it elsewhere. "Be certain" by being honest, and thus declaring your marriage open. I've zero judgment about people who honestly "cheat" on their spouse (which I don't think is cheating). Cheating is when you haven't made it clear that your marriage is now open, or being direct about it. [/quote]

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