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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Truth is they believe their needs come before their kids.

[b]Most resent their kids because their spouse put the kids first.
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It’s not normal but cheaters live in a world view that is not normal.[/quote]
Reminds me of the thread "you love them more than me...".

and I agree.. cheaters aren't thinking about anything other than themselves. They disassociate what they do outside the home with their home life.

Different children react differently to the cheating spouse.  My dad cheated on my mom (before I was born), and my oldest sister remembers everything though she was quite young. It's impacted how she views him. Same for DH. His dad cheated, and his one sister never forgave him for that, even when he died. DH wasn't as angry, but he certainly lost some respect for his father after this.   There's a lot of anger and resentment in some of the kids.

We had this discussion with our kids. 14 yr old said if his dad ever cheated (it was about men cheating), DS would hate him for it.

People who think cheating doesn't impact your kids are delusional.
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I wanted to post on that thread make an exit plan now because he will eventually cheat and blame you.[/quote]

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