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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn't realize that every time I have lunch with my coworkers and don't tell my wife that I'm hiding things from her! I was talking with a co-worker today about a tv show we both watch... I need to call my wife right now and tell her about that!

OP sounds controlling and neurotic.[/quote]

Lunch is not the same as going for drinks one-on-one after a work event, and I'm pretty sure you know it.  I do things one-on-one with coworkers, but my spouse knows about them.  I don't have a secret colleague that I'm chummy enough with to text to my own phone and also meet alone for drinks more than once.  This could conceivably be innocent but let's not act like OP's being a crazy person for finding it strange.[/quote]

OP admits to doing the same thing she even called him a "work husband" and SOP on DCUM is for the work husband/wife scenario to be considered an "affair." Therefore OP has admitted to having had at least an "emotional affair." Did OP really tell her husband about every single interaction she had with her affair partner while she was having it? I doubt it. In reality it is unreasonable to expect a spouse to tell their partner about every single interaction they have with other people with the spouse isn't around.

OP needs to own up to her snooping and apologize to her husband for breach of trust.[/quote]

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