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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Going for a drink after a work happy hour is not what you do with your work wife imo. That’s not a bitch session, that’s a date. Sorry to say it. [/b]

I think you snooped, but I think you should come clean. Let him be mad or whatever but just take responsibility for the snooping (an appropriate level - it was a breach of trust but not some huge betrayal). Don’t  pay too much attention to his reaction - time to focus on yourself. Your health, your job, your hobbies. Whatever is going on with your husband is going to go on or not no matter what magic words you say. [/quote]

Yup.  Heck, I have a same gender work spouse and I don't even go to post-work related function drinks without the other significant or other colleagues involved, let alone a different gender (assuming she's not a lesbian). [/quote]

+2  We have a group of people in the office that will go out for drinks together after an event, but not one-on-one.  And certainly not while hiding any interaction with that coworker from your spouse.  This feels like an affair, not a "work wife" situation.[/quote]

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