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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is how my office affair started.  I wouldn’t say anything but I would pay attention.  [/quote]

Not saying anything kills me because it’s affecting how I interact with him.  I’m mad and probably cold because I’m pissed and anxious that he hiding something.  But as I said I’m afraid to drive this further nderground. My best case resolution would be something like - he says he’s been hiding this friend from me because he thought I would be jealous and he feels bad about it, and then it’s out in the open and not a problem anymore.  I have close male work friends I socialize with but am Not trying to sleep with, why can’t he?[/quote]

If he's texting her "a lot" is he never doing it when he's home with you?  "Oh, who are you texting?" or "oh, what are you reading?" are pretty normal things to ask a spouse absorbed with their phone.  Does he mention other people from work but specifically not her?  Do you go out socially together with anyone from his work (but not her)?  Those things can help to answer the "is he hiding or it just honestly hasn't come up" question.[/quote]

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