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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, that's a tough one. I get a sick feeling in my stomach just reading about this. I don't know how you solve this problem. Good luck![/quote] Why do you get sick? Dealing with cheap ass people at work or charity events just gets old. I have the means and ability to deal with the mundane petty stuff so I take care of it. Not going waste emotional or intellectual capital arguing over it. Also the amount of money I make in an hour isn’t going to justify me chasing people down for incremental amounts of money. [/quote]Yes, that's your choice. If I were OP's husband, it wouldn't make me sick because it would be my choice to do it. But what makes me feel sick is that OP has no control over something that her husband chooses to do. I've been in a similar situation where money was really short and dh chose to be magnanimous without asking me about it first. I'm the one who had to deal with the shortfall that he was so happy to add to - it didn't keep him awake at night. Just me.[/quote]
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