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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a neighbor that adopted 3 russian kids 5 years ago she has no other children.  To this day she introduces them to people as her adopted children.  She makes me clean up after her.  She said to someone if they were her real kids maybe she would feel differently about them.  Oh trust me cps has been called so many times for things she has done to them and nothing has been done.  She brags that she can get away with anything.[/quote]

That is shocking!, if I were you I would report her!, I am adopted and my parents have 1 biological sister, she was treated differently to me, and maybe is slightly more spoilt,
but that is because she see items as proof as love, where I have been less focused on that and more focused on attention- emotional support from my parents,
my parents try to keep everything equal but there are four years between us, but even if we were both biological it would be the same scenario, I don't care in the end if my sisster does or doesn't get more then me.

All I care about is wether my parents love me, and I know they do, still being adopted and I was adopted from birth, you always feel different, and I guess I wondered why I wasn't enough, I notice my mom has more of a connection with my sisster, not saying she doesn't love me, just think the way she was brought up was different she had a strict nanny, although I do still question as I used to do chores for my mom just so I could spend time with her  sometimes when I was little,  and had a nanny who looked after me and my sister , felt like she always chose my sister over me,so possibly she may love my sister more then me, but that doesn't mean she doesn't love me.

I now have my own child she's gorgeous,  and my mom and dad love her more then anything in the world.

I guess they wouldn't feel that way unless they honestly saw me as their daughter, I love my family so much, and I am very lucky they adopted me,
my husband is one of three and all three of them were treated differently and his little sister is bit of princess and very spoilt, only girl and youngest .

So I don't think it has to do with gender, age or being adopted, etc.

A child is a precious gift, they should be protected, and not feel like they have to work to earn your love, they should do it because they love you, and they know you love them. :)

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