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[quote=Anonymous]From what you wrote, I don’t think you are compatible.  Being completely honest there are a lot of men and woman with their own teenage or out of the house kids that don’t want to raise someone else’s young kids because they are done and/or don’t want to have that additional upheaval for a teenager that will be moving out in just a few years.  Did he ever sound gung ho if he found the right person to blend families while his kids were still in high school etc or more of a non committal - won’t say no, but not saying it’s important to have this type of commitment.

With the swinging party, that’s a whole other discussion.  If you had the type of commitment you are looking for, I.e. engagement and a partner in raising your son, would you really want to add swinging to the mix and is it important to have someone open to that?  If it’s not, don’t just do this to go along and keep this guy.  If it is something important really think about how important- it may be hard to find that guy that has the marriage track, willing to raise a young step son and has the sexual compatibility you are looking for.[/quote]

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