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[quote=Anonymous]OP, lots of people are being harsh to you, and to him, but my advice is still the same. Slow this down and expect it to end when he moves. They are two separate issues: He is moving and it seems like an enormous commitment so soon, yes a year, even two years is way, way too soon to be remarried especially if you have kids and especially if it requires uprooting your kids from your friends, kids friends and schools. Not to be a buzz kill, but that seems somewhat cruel to do after your kid's home life was shattered. The swinging thing, yes he is interested and I commend him for being somewhat honest by raising it now. Nothing wrong with swinging and nothing wrong with not wanting to swing, but this is obviously an urge of his he wants to satisfy. Short story is you have multiple incompatibilities, let him go, either soon or when he leaves.[/quote]
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