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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Move out. There is absolutely no reason to muddy your finances and your ability to think clearly about the overall situation while you sort this out.

You aren't married, and you don't have children together. You can still spend as much time as you want together, but there is psychologically something very different about having your own space. As you said, you can do it for the same amount you are paying now, and better for you in many ways.

I suspect there haven't been many really productive conversations between the two of you about how things work in the relationship, practically speaking. It's probably time to set it up so that can happen -- or not, if he isn't willing. That's useful information, too.[/quote]

+1 - Move and take all the furniture and household goods you've paid for. The relationship probably won't survive but if you are interested in staying in it you can always just say, "I love you but don't feel like we are on the same page as far as financial interests. For this to work, I need to have my own place to live."

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