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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your dh doesn’t want more kids why hasn’t he gotten a vasectomy?[/quote]

also no response re: were they using birth control?[/quote]

Why does this matter? I got pregnant on birth control used correctly (diaphragm plus jelly). I know other women who did as well. I know other women who, like certain PP, had had fertility issues so assumed birth control wasn't necessary. In one memorable example, my parents had some younger friends who had triplets with IVF after struggling with infertility for years. Then a year or so later, boom, bonus baby #4 -- I guess the pump had been primed.

But even if OP and her DH weren't using birth control for reasons of their own, that's 100% irrelevant to her decision now.

It sounds like you're asking a nosy, prying question that is absolutely none of your business so you can pass judgment on OP and determine whether -- in your moral view -- she's entitled to an abortion or not. If that's the case, you would benefit from turning that judgmental eye inwards. Whether or not it's your particular faith, let he who is without sin cast the first stone has always rung true to me despite my avowed atheism.[/quote]
Great response. I <3 you. [/quote]

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