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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what are the formal elements that you like that your DH's family doesn't use? And which of those are most important to you?

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OP here. Thank you for the advice, all!

Most important to me:
-Using china (I only use it a few times a year, and I love it. My feeling is, why have it if you don't use it?)
-Homemade food (mostly; I am OK with a few things that are store-bought)
-No TV during the actual meal (though the suggestion to have it on but with volume off might be OK)

I am fine with people wearing whatever they want, but I am nervous that if they come in sweats or PJs and see the nice table and that DH and I are dressed a bit more nicely (I usually wear trousers and a blouse, and DH usually wears nice jeans and a sweater), they'll feel out of place. I don't want to tell anyone what to wear, but I also don't want them to feel like, "Hey, I would have dressed up if you told me!"[/quote]

If you want to use your china, go for it, but remember that if it can't go in the dishwasher you are handing yourself a ton of work.

Have you don't a thanksgiving meal before? The biggest challenge is that you probably have just four burners and one oven and everything tends to need them at the last minute.  Make the pies early in the morning.[/quote]

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