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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should talk to your mom, and make her understand that other people would not interpret the situation the way that she and your stepdad are interpreting it, and that they would find it creepy. She has to figure out how to make stepdad understand that he went too far, but without losing face with you. So, don't expect him to ever apologize, but I think he needs to be told in a very calm tone that he went too far, and it could backfire if you were to move out or accuse him of anything improper.

I believe you that he isn't a creep, but he just got REALLY carried away, and he needs to understand that you are a young woman and he has to act with more propriety. 
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I appreciate the sentiment, pp, but I don't think OP's mom will listen. If she does, great, but OP needs some backup plans.[/quote]

Agree.  These 2 adults are broken people if they can not see how damaging their behavior is.  Op is "just a kid" who is living in the stepdad's house and is more or less a possession in his mind - a subservient under his control.  The mom is probably not ranked much higher than Op is.

Op can love her parents while recognizing that they are very flawed human beings who likely had a rough upbringing themselves.  If moving to her Dad's house is not an option, then Op needs to put her energy and attention into her own self betterment so that she can get the hell out of that house.[/quote]

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