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[quote=Anonymous] OP, This is classic controlling and abusive behavior on the part of your stepfather. He humiliates you to better feel his power and influence over you, and probably does the same thing, perhaps in a more subdued way (or not), with everyone who is dependent on him. He may or may not be aware of WHY he does this. Most people don't take the time to parse and understand their inner motivations. I would sit down and talk with both adults, to say that these constant put-downs and humiliations are unacceptable behaviors and that every time your stepfather does this, you lose a little bit more respect for him. Your mother should defend you to the best of her ability, however she may be dependent on him too and/or brainwashed. Above all, don't let him get to you. Stay calm, don't cry, put up a neutral front at all times. If your father has a cruel streak, he will enjoy seeing you get emotional. In a few years, you will be well shot of him. [/quote]
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