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Reply to "If your parents divorced, what did they do RIGHT?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I can tell you what we do even though neither me nor my ex-DH come from divorce. (1) Family events. We still occasionally do things together whether it's dinner, pool, hike, farm, etc. in addition to the regular birthday parties and special events. When I have the kids, I'll also do stuff with his family even if he is not there as we get along very well. (2) We are very cordial and never speak negatively about or to the other in front of the kids. (3) Free flow of "stuff' to each others' houses (e.g., things that came from him like clothes or toys do not have to stay at his house and vice versa) (4) 50-50 custody with room for changes. Respect for the other's time. If I have to travel for work, he takes the kids, and vice versa. If he wants to go on a vacation, no problem, and vice versa. We give each other that space and opportunity. (5) No introducing significant others to the kids without approval / meeting the other parent.[/quote]
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