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[quote=Anonymous]The reasons people asked if you work are (a) moving frequently means you're likely also having to switch jobs with every move too. So each move is putting your combined household income at risk, which might outweigh the financial benefits of moving. And (b) if your husband was the sole breadwinner, there's more pressure on him constantly working, and for that to be the case, sometimes a move might be necessary to keep the income going. That said, I agree that this sucks for you and the kids. But I feel like the time to have this conversation with him was before he decided to take this next job. It's a little late to pull the plug now. I think you need to say, "I'll do this move but that's it. No more. We need to stay put in one place till the kids are out of school. it's not good for us emotionally to keep moving." [/quote]
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